fix: make sure outgoing remote mentions get resolved correctly if referenced with non-canonical casing

What does this PR do? (Please give us a brief description of what this PR does.) This commit makes sure that outgoing mentions that use non-canonical username or host casing get rendered to HTML correctly.

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Resolves #646 (closed)